Whizin Wonders

Navigating the Relationship Between our Human and our Soul

Flowers And Relationships: A Metaphor For Nurturing Love – Part 1

"Love is the flower you've got to let grow". - John Lennon Here we are in the month of May. Flowers are blooming and so are relationships. I’m taking a new spin on relationships this month and using flowers as the analogy of life. Just like flowers require nurturing, care, and attention to grow and bloom, relationships require the same. Relationships can be beautiful and fulfilling, and they need to be tended to regularly to keep them healthy...

Do You Desire To Live A Better Life?

"Life is what we make it, always has been, always will be.” -Grandma Moses Ah, living a Yummy Delicious Life!  Doesn’t that sound just yummy delicious, like eating a scrumptious, delectable, mouthwatering, delightful, tasty, meal?  Remember when you ate something so yummy-delicious and you couldn’t help but say, “YUMMMMM,” as you tasted it in your mouth? So, how does eating a yummy-delicious meal that you absolutely love, relate to...

Are You Ready To Die?

"The fear of death follows from the fear of life. A man who lives fully is prepared to die at any time."- Mark Twain Life and Death.  Two profound moments in time.  How does one get ready to die at any given moment, and “ready to go”? The Shamans ask, “Are you ready to die?”  They ask this question to check in to see if you are living your life so fully, with integrity and totality, that IF THIS was your LAST moment,...

How To Live a Blame-Free, Loving Life

“Take your life in your own hands, and what happens?  A terrible thing: no one to blame.” -Erica Jong As an intuitive life coach and end-of-life trainer, my clients have shared many valuable experiences with me over the years. In these experiences, I have found a common thread: the ability to look within oneself without putting any blame on others is, indeed, a skill that can you can master over time. It is possible to live a...

Love Yourself Enough To Be Selfish

We’ve all heard people say, “You’re selfish.”  “Why don't you do such and such?” “Why don’t you just go to school, finish your degree, become a doctor or a lawyer or something that has job security, or just get a job?”  When someone says, “you’re selfish” because you are not living according to the way “they” (whoever “they” are) wants you to live, it’s “their” notion of selfish that becomes more...

How To Turn Self-Talk Positive

"There is more wisdom in your body than in your deepest philosophy."- Friedrich Nietzsche You know that loud negative chatter that’s constantly telling you negative things in your mind that drive you crazy? You can hush that voice with a gentle nudge by thanking the voice for wanting to protect you and surrender to the Universe. It’s a human wiring thing. As humans, we’ve been wired for impending danger since the beginning of time, so it...

How To Fall In Love With Your Heart…

“You can’t blame gravity for falling in love.”-Albert Einstein When Albert Einstein wrote “You can’t blame gravity for falling in love,” I think what he meant was that love is not a scientific or intellectual thing.  Love is the art part of life… something you can’t “figure out” from your head.  Falling in love with your heart is the best way to allow yourself to feel love inside.  Letting love lead the way is...

How To Own Your Own “Stuff”

Sometimes, we as humans, like to gloss over our stuff that’s sitting beneath what we say and do, often responding when someone asks what’s going on, by saying, “All is well,” when in fact, all may not really be well.  We may even be holding onto feelings like anger, resentment, grudges, or even jealousy under the surface that make us feel bad.  It seems like it’s a lot “easier” to blame others for how we feel, and not...

For The Love Of Humanity

Well, who would have thought I’d be writing again so soon?  I just couldn’t help myself this morning, just thinking about the women and girls in Afghanistan. I mean, it’s terrible!  Humanity is stepping back, uprooting any possible wholeness between men and women, at least in that region of the world.  I read an article yesterday about the Nobel Peace Prize winner, Malala Yousafzai, the young 15-year-old girl who was shot...

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